Step 9 – Creating Connection Through Change In Focus
Step Nine
Creating Connection Through Change In Focus
We hope that you will continue to bring the tools of awareness and regulation with you to your interactions with your horse.
Now we are going to start showing your horse how aware you are and we are also going to start teaching them something as well.
You might have heard before that we like to do things that mean something, and we’re a bit lazy, so when we introduce something to the horse, it usually has multiple layers held within it. This exercise is one of those. It teaches so much to both you and your horse.
Firstly, this is where they learn to look towards the flag. We want to be able to draw their thoughts with the flag and this is a crucial step for a lot of things that come later. However, this is also the place where you get to start showing your horse how aware you are of them and of their change in focus.
When you start showing them that you notice when their focus changes, this helps them feel safer than they had in your presence.
On, this, the first day that you are going to go out and try the exercise, it’s more important that you practice getting the changes of focus than it is that they follow you around. They will learn more in the process of repetition than they will in the following you around. So, the more times that you can get their attention with the flag and then show them that you saw their change in focus, that is the goal for today. Not following you around.
Remember, this is just the “next thing” in the process, don’t worry about the “Days” anymore. You are on your timeline…not ours.
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This is so much fun!
Hi Warwick, I have a question I need clarifying. So I am sure in this video on here or some video on the subject matter; you suggested the space should be at least 75 mtrs. Could you clarify for me please, as the maximum space I have is a ménage/arena sized 20×40 mtr. Unfortunately the field isn’t an option because I am on livery and others horses will be in the field. Thanks
The maximum distance would be eyesight distance. Your 20 x 40 will work fine
I have one more question! I wanted to start tomorrow (I only have a limited window of opportunity due to being at a livery yard which is primarily a riding school but there are no lessons over Christmas/NY break and so have been waiting for this particular time), but it’s a weather forecast of heavy rain and gusty winds of about 40-45 mph. Does that matter? I am thinking not. I mean she is used to being out in a field in these conditions albeit with her herd. I just wondered if the gusty winds may make it more challenging and more of a distraction for my mare?
With the rain she will tend to only want to face in one direction.
Thanks, I appreciate you getting back on this. I was wondering about that too as I know their tendency is to face out of the direction of rain and the wind will make that more forceful probably. Thank you. I will await till a better weather moment. May have to be next week? Who knows? We will get the moment.
I feel like the best spot for me to practice this is in a very large fenced forested area outside of a pasture, so I have my horse outside of the pasture where there are other horses. There is some forage though and when we practiced today, besides him being focused on his pals, he was also focused on eating. I got lots of chances to show my awareness of his change in focus though, so I don’t think the eating is issue, it’s just different than your videos which are in an arena. Would you agree?
Yes, theres a video on this
Found it, thanks! I thought I was really connected to my horse and that we would sail through this exercise, boy was I wrong. We’ll be staying here till we get it sorted, but not too sorted just mostly sorted. :)
Hi,
Would you even try this if you only had a paddock with grass? I’ve tried but they pretty quickly return to eating grass/
Yes. Watch “being effective with creating connection through change in focus, even if its on grass”
I’m currently practicing the flag exercise and my horse notices that I notice the ear and the eye. She is relaxed, but it takes her less than an hour to an hour and a half to move her leg. That means it’s still a long way from coming straight to me. How long do you have to do the exercise? I thought that if you tried to practice her regularly that the horse would come towards you relatively soon but that’s not the case, I always wait and wait, she is extremely focused on everything that is around her. And I think she is bored from the flag. What can I do better ?
Id watch the video on “being effective”.
id also ensure you are arcing in such a way that draws her feet.
Is it ok to talk to your horse during the change in focus exercise or should it be done in mostly silence?
Is it OK?
That depends on your emotional state while saying what you are say.
Are you saying “the clouds are very fluffy today”, or are you saying “please please come over here, I want you so badly to come over here”?
Each one of those has a different energy, and what enrgy you bring will determine the outcome.
I understand that what you say has different energy, and realize that you talk the whole time on the video bc you’re teaching us. But I wasn’t sure if it was important to stay quiet. My horse approaches me more consistently if I do talk “how’s it going”etc…. general questions that don’t have meaning other than to just talk. My horse has a very shut down personality toward the flag. Blocks it out most times. But if I talk while I do it, he many times will turn and face me or approach me more often than when I’m silent.
Does your horse ignore it, or block it out?
Ignoring it is just not interested, blocking it out their eyes will turn slightly away.
His ears are cocked back and he seems to go internal. Eyes might look away slightly but are mostly glazed over…
Ok, the forget the CCTCHIF, and work on the scratching for connection
This exercise is a lot more complex than it seems. LOL I’ve watched these videos twice before going out with my horse, Han. He used to be very shut down like Sherlock. But we’ve been following your methods regularly for the past 6 months and now he’s a much more relaxed horse. In fact, I was surprised I couldn’t get him to stop paying attention to me. His gaze rarely left me and he came up to me multiple times during the exercise to engage. Maybe he’s the kind of horse (now) that doesn’t do well in this exercise. Is that possible?
Its sounds like he did the exercise perfectly, then you are asking if hes the kind of horse that doesnt do well with this exercise?
Is that correct?
Yes, I’m asking if he’s the kind who doesn’t need this kind of work. He’s not a pushy, run-you-over type though. Maybe it was just the horse I had that day.
“Maybe it was just the horse I had that day”
I dont ever base my thoughts on what a horse does once, I base it on what they do consistently.
I recently bought an OTTB / ex-polo horse, and while letting him adjust in his new environment as a livery horse for the last 2 months, he changed his demeanour from shut down and withdrawn to showing high sensitivity and anxiousness. I think it’s great he is coming more to the outside instead of keeping it all in, but I also realise I need to take it a lot slower than I originally thought. He has made friendship with 2 other horses, which is great, but separation anxiety has also kicked in.
So what I am doing now instead of taking him out alone to the paddock is visiting him in the stable, where his friends are next to him, opening the low gate, and allowing him to make a choice if he wants to step out or not. Sometimes he comes, then we walk outside, we graze a bit, then turn back in when he gives the signal. Sometimes he doesn’t, but usually comes with his muzzle.
I also realise when I sit on the wall he really tenses up, and that speaks well to his mounting issue (when I bought him 2 grooms were holding his head for getting on, something I didn’t think much about before finding your videos).
So, I am really grateful I found this site and all your wisdom and experience! I hope I can help him relax and undo the damage done to him, if at all possible.
I tried this yesterday. I’m wondering if I should continue doing this or move to a different exercise, because I’ve done some desensitizing exercises and some clicker training with my OTTB mare, so she sees the ‘flag’ (I used a plastic bag, because I didn’t have a flag.) as a treat bag and either totally ignored it or came to see what may be in it. I got her attention for a while and she would come to me…, but once she realized there were no treats in the bag, she started losing focus, so I started making more ‘noise’ with the bag, which scared the horses in her paddock and caused them to run. She was in a small arena near the paddock. She trotted a little because they were running, but not because of me and the bag. Is this further evidence that I need to keep working on this, (because she paid more attention to them than me), or should I move to something different? I think I know the answer, but I would appreciate your guidance. Maybe I’ll try a different “bag” or flag today. Thank you! I love the podcasts, by the way. They make my 1 hour commute to work every day enjoyable and thought provoking.
Id keep working ion it, If this basic exercise doesnt work, neither will the rest of them.
“I got her attention for a while ”
Remember, its not about keeping her attention, its about how many times can you communicate that you are aware of her change in focus.
Would you do this exercise with a horse that is pushy? I understand that I have been the issue with our relationship with shrinking back and puffing up, etc, and now trying to be very careful to do neither. He is a large horse that carries a lot of tension physically, pushes on fences, other horses, etc., and I haven’t been attuned to his bids for connection or when that changes into pushiness, and I would describe him as being a bit defensive/sour now. So figured this would be a good way to start rebuilding things for us. I have done the hanging out on the other side of the fence, and that has gone well.
We have spent about 6 sessions, currently about an hour each. From the beginning, he will always have an ear on you and watch you out of the corner of his eye, but that little movement of softening his neck to turn his head has been difficult to get. I have had to move to being effective a lot in the first couple of tries, as he is normally munching on a bit of dried grass on the edge of the arena and blocks you out. I acknowledge the change and then walk back to the center of the area. Currently, you still have to be pretty close to him to get a change. If you have to get close, do you always walk back to the center of the arena? Then, after a while of me acknowledging his changes, he will come up and engage, which is great. But what starts out as a bid for connection/chomping quickly turns into pushiness, and the flag doesn’t work to get him to step back, so I just walk quickly past him with some energy. He leaves, and we start over.
Suggestions? I feel as though I must not be communicating something correctly with him. I have been working through this with my other 2 horses, and both have a passing grade on the exercise, so I feel like I do pretty good with them. Just not sure what I am missing.
I think you are handling things perfectly is all the situations with this horse. Keep up the great work, and fovus on the process, dont worry about the outcome.
So, I came back to this step after discovering just how much the mare I’ve had for all but two of her 21 years is able to ignore me. I saddled her yesterday, and she was as she always is.. sweet, willing, picky about being asked ‘softly’, expecting me to read HER small gestures while ridden, just as she reads mine (Unless it’s time I should listen to hers) On the ground… she was tolerating me. Willing and turned toward me to be haltered… same with bridling… quiet while being saddled (Ok.. perhaps a bit ‘away’ inside herself) but not wanting to engage as I led her to the mounting block and climbed aboard.
SO… today did the change of focus to create engagement… and she was a tough cookie to get engaged, compared to Ruby Jewel the Mu-elle… FINALLY saw some changes, consistent ones, her following etc. So then began stillness and quiet on the lead rope.
THANK YOU for advising another person to go right to ‘scratching for engagement’ because she BLOSSOMED with that one!
FWIW… she used to be difficult to catch, until… before becoming a subscriber, I watched a video you’d done on engagement, in terms of haltering. It makes so much sense to wait for her to engage with me and move her muzzle toward the halter. Now, she’s only hard to catch if she needs to relieve herself. Once that’s done, she’s ready to engage. Unless I’m working on “change of focus to create engagement’ with a flag.
Of course, it was also her usual nap time (10 AM) might that have been a factor?
Heya there Warwick. How might I adapt this to a horse who is opposite? My horse is more pushy than aloof. When he sees me approaching he is as close to the fence/gate as possible. When I go in he does move away and makes space for me to enter easily. However once I am in there he will move his shoulder/chest into me with his head turned away. This seems to have been something I have reinforced overtime as a way of engaging as this is one of his nice itchy spots. He will move in for scratches. Or point to spots he would like scratched. Currently, I am practicing stopping my approach to his paddock when he is staring at me with his ears pricked forward, I then advance again if he looks away or drops his head down. Once in, I would just create energy if he comes in with his shoulder or walk away. Im unsure if this is creating connection though. Or maybe just while in front of him slowly move myself and then slowly raise the flag until he looks at it? Thank you for your time =)
I would stand outside the fence, wait until he leaves, then you leave. Id do this every time until he doesnt approach the fence when you arrive. Once you get that part, when you walk in, when he walks up to you do what I show in the “what to do if your horse wants to engage too much” video
I couldn’t find that video specifically you mentioned, however I did find one later on in this 30 day jump start in the Common problems for the flowchart area about standing too close, creating energy. I also found one on youtube called Horses That Push Into You On The Ground where you just walked to his hind end not engaging in the pushy behavior. Are those around what you suggest to be doing with him?
What issue are you having?
I’m looking for the video you suggested to watch. What to do when your horse wants to engage too much. I’m having problems doing the creating connection through change in focus because he tends to be more pushy than aloof.
Just do a search for that title, it should pop up
Yep, When I type that title in the search bar it does not show up. A web cast q&a pops up but it doesn’t speak on that topic. And the other thing that pops up is
(Acidentally pressed enter) “Horses that come in too close”, a video that come up later in the jump start in the common problems area or the flow chart. Thank you for your help
I just saw there is a spelling miske in the title. It’s called “What to donwhen your horse wants to engage too much”, or just put “engage” in the search bar and it will come up.
Hi from Australia, Warwick and Robyn : ),
Just a note to say a massive thank you for making your knowledge accessible, I’m extremely grateful and can see massive changes in myself and my horse, after starting to work on Creating Connection Through Change in Focus (for only 3 days so far!).
Back story if you’re interested/have time – I bought my mare about 18 months ago. She’s very obedient, but as I created/perceived over time, also very shut down – she goes inside her head a lot. Because she is obedient, I took her for granted and just started going out with her to clinics, trail rides, cutting and ranch sorting training/events etc. I didn’t know about creating connection. I thought because I wasn’t hurting her and I was caring for her, that she should trust me. Over time, I kept noticing her ears back, her tail swishing, her shutting down. My instructors didn’t care about it, but I realised I was not doing right by her. I stopped riding her and started looking for help. It’s taken me 8 months to find you. In that time, all I’ve done is tried to love on her, and trim her (I’m a student of David Landreville). She continued blocking me out, or tolerating me at best. Until I started your 30 Day Jumpstart.
So far we’ve done 3 days of Creating Connection Through Change in Focus. She spent days 1 and 2 pretty much blocking me out, walking away, or hiding in a corner. I had to touch her with the flag a couple of times, to get her to notice me at all. I just kept on acknowledging her noticing me. Today, I walked in to the opposite side of her paddock and she looked up brightly, so I turned away and waited. When I turned back, she was three quarters of the paddock closer to me. I then started an arc around her and she bent, stepped, then came straight up and said hello. It would have been within 5 minutes of me being in the paddock. From there, she stayed with me while I walked around a bit, this way and that. We ended the session with some scratches and then I left her at the gate, after which she followed me along the fence…….unbelievable.
I’m really excited about how I can do better for her, and my other horses. I’m using all of your techniques for self regulation at all sorts of times, including while I’m trimming. I’m trying to be aware of, and then stop, any sense of judgement or expectation. I can feel that I’m lighter and less tense.
So – so much gratitude to you and Robyn, from Indigo and I. I cannot thank you enough!
Tracey : )
Mareeba, Far North Queensland
Great work Tracey
Hi,I recently enrolled and am working thru courses with my 4.5 yr old 16 hand Percheron quarter horse cross, amish trained. I have had 5 other horses over the past 34 years-3 arabians, one quarter horse and now my grade Percheron Quarter horse. He is a little spooky to sounds and anything that looks like a whip. He is very responsive under saddle but I thought it best that I make a relationship with him. Today when trying to do focus exercises he did very well however when he eventually turns to put 2 eyes on me after 15 min of running around wherever in arena he is riveted in place. immediately responsive in relooking at me. If he turns his head and looks elsewhere and I raise the flag it is instantaneous refocus on me. He looks and chews and after 10 min rested a hind leg but kept his eyes on me no matter what. He did not come to me. I went to him and relieved him of his fixed position and did some other mild exercises. I tried walking away but he did not follow. I only briefly glanced at him and turned my body slightly away. He is paying attention but he has not joined me. What should I do?
“He looks and chews and after 10 min rested a hind leg but kept his eyes on me no matter what.”
When you arced around to 5 oclock or 7 oclock (if his body is pointing towards 12) he would either take his eyes off of you, or untrack his feet. Which does he do?
I did not think to try that. We were both looking at each other head on initially. I put flag behind me and averted my eyes to the right. I will try this this weekend and report back.
Hi Warwick!
I’m pretty new to horses and apologize if this has been answered somewhere already. I got two OTTB geldings about a month ago and they’ve been inseparable since they got here. They have a big barn and a pasture. We sectioned off a little area to be their ‘working pen’, but they absolutely do not tolerate being away from each other. One (Sacara) tolerates it better than the other (Seneca) when I walk him while Seneca is tied up, but when Sacara is tied up and I try to walk Seneca, he will only go so far and then refuse. Sacara will start getting nervous and calling him and then Seneca gets nervous and runs back to him. I don’t want to overwhelm them but I’m also not sure how to start this exercise without being able to separate them.. If I don’t, they’ll just follow each other around. What I’ve been doing is to tie them up and walk one a couple of steps and then go back and repeat and switch. But that feels like skipping a bunch of steps as they are already on a halter then. Sacara actually did lay down next to me yesterday and we just hung out, which I didn’t expect, but I’m still not sure how to even get started with them getting so nervous. I left them alone for most of the month so that they could settle in and just be horses. I just spent time in the pasture (reading your book!) and groomed them (which they’re fine with). I was hoping that maybe you or someone here could give me some pointers. Thank you so much in advance!
Lara
Hi Lara
it’s a little more difficult with 2 horse, but just choose 1, and do the creating connection with that one, ignoring the other.
Hi Warwick-
Practicing! My horse turned his attention towards me, I stopped and turned away. He walked up to me from behind and reached his nose out for connection. I just held my hand out and said hello. Then he turned and put his butt upon me and wanted scratches. I just walked away. This happened 3 more times afterwards. What should I do when he does this?
I think you did exactly the right thing.
Hi Warwick!
I tried working on this exercise but my horse has her ears and eyes on me even without the flag. As I was walking to the barn she was watching me. I mucked out then started this exercise. I am working on her field, so she was watching me walk to her and behind her before I even started the exercise. When I try to get her head to look at me she walks away. What do I do?
” so she was watching me walk to her and behind her before I even started the exercise. When I try to get her head to look at me she walks away.”
did you try to get her head while she was already looking at you?
I did this exercise with my 5 yr old mare yesterday, for the first time. It didn’t go how I expected (does anything?). She didn’t run around as much as I thought she would and settled into walking or trotting between two different spots, at either end of the arena, both having views of other horses, moving back and forth between them with her neck lower. I did get some ear flicks and eyes when I took a step or sometimes when I would move up to bringing out the flag a bit, then I’d stop, turn around. Lots of deep breathing and thinking softness with soft eyes. She would come over and join me and we connected twice. But other times she would walk through my space and even clack like a foal when she did. It was if she wanted me to mother her. She liked to stand with her wither or neck right beside me and twice with her bum to me (maybe asking me to watch her back?). Though I admit in the field she does love to get scratches. She also got to a point where she did nibble on grass along the edges and explored some of the pilons piled up in a corner.
I didn’t want to add pressure to get her out of my space when she’d come to me and brush up against me so I just tried to hold more space with my body so she wouldn’t come into it and make myself a bit bigger.
Any thoughts? Suggestions? I look forward to trying this with her again and reviewing all the videos/materials again.
It sounds like you did great, especially staying stioll when she did a drive by.
Rain made the arena off limits for a week but we tried again on the weekend. This time she was a lot less concerned by the arena and I got an ear, then eye most of the time pretty easily though there were a few times where she tried to block me out and I had to go right up to her, get a response then head back to the start at the far end of the arena. Eventually she joined me in the middle seeking connection. After a couple times I took it and offered her to follow. I’m not 100% sure she untracked her front feet (I forgot to watch for it, my bad) but as she followed me she tossed her head a bit dramatically. I let her walk off. Started again and that time she connected and followed nicely so we went to the halter. I asked and she lowered her head to have it on and go back out to matching steps and a bit of grazing.
I will be doing this exercise again until I get the level of response and awareness of the flag consistently and more in tune when she connects and follows. I’m enjoying this one and it’s giving me good insight.
Sounds like you got it just right, great work
Hi Warwick, what would be a “passing grade” for this exercise, please?
Hi Lisa
Id say a pssing grade would be if your horse’s attention is easy to attract with the flag, and ypu’ve done this enough to have you horse want to hang with you.
Hi Warwick, I’m working on connection through change in focus with the flag. My horse is definitely responding and wants to connect. However he is mouthy and will spend however long I let him, scraping his teeth along my hand, which I have been letting him do as I watched your videos with a mouthy horse. Am I supposed to do this as long as he wants or should I stop it at some point? Usually I am okay with it bc it seems soothing/releasing to him. Today somehow i changed my hand position at some point and he got a hold of my finger and was biting it very hard in his mouth as I tried to remove it. Do you suggest letting him keep teeth scraping if it can become nipping/biting? I’m confused here
The only thing that changed was your hand position, not his intention. You said he went from teeth scraping to biting. Actually he didnt, he was doing the same thing for the same reason all along.
You also mentioned he likes to nip and pull on clothes. This tells me your hand isnt between you and him at those times.
This is all a part of the process, just stick with it, theres nothing to change
Hi Just wondering if you can recommend where I can get a telescopic flag from so I can get started on this stage? I would like to purchase one but not sure where (In Perth – Australia) I can get them? Any suggestion would be great thanks.
We sell them on our website
https://warwickschiller.com/product/pocket-horsemanship-flag/
But the shipping to Australia is very expensive, and there are locally sold ones there that are similar.
Hi! This isn’t so much a question as an over burbling of excitement, though I’m super willing to be corrected if I’m off beam. Basically if I had had any expectations with this exercise, I would have completely failed – however I’m thrilled 🤪
The pony I’m working with is relatively new to us; he came with ulcers and a general aura of misery. His default with humans was to stare off into the distance, turn his head away, or bite. He’s pretty vile to other horses as well. Horses that come to us generally cheer up considerably in the days after arrival but I was starting to think I’d bitten off more than I could chew with this one – which was causing a massive amount of stress to me and within the family actually, as ponies aren’t cheap purchases and I am carrying the burden of Wasting Family Funds. (I did pour some of this stress onto poor Warwick at the Horsemanship Showcase, so sorry about that, and thank you for talking me down!)
Anyway – I’ve been playing in the field with the respecting boundaries concept – backing off when Badger pins his ears, resting a hand on him when he allows (which he didn’t initially, then did) and removing it when he relaxed a bit. He had started to connect by nipping at my hands (even a nip with him is a big step forward from a sudden lunge and bite)
Then I tried establishing connection through change in focus today in our arena.
Massive fail that I never even got the flag out. Badger never really took his eye off me. After wandering around for a bit, he turned to face me, backed into the fence and started itching his butt on the fence – right by one of the arena light posts. Rather than let him knock it over, I had to dash over and take over butt scratching duties, which was about as glamorous as it sounds. He enjoyed that for a bit, turned round to say hi, then spent about 20 minutes variously following me round the arena and pointing out other bits of him which I could scratch. This from Mr Miserable who didn’t want to be touched at all until very recently. I think the ears flicked back once when I got too far under his belly, but that was it. A lovely, soft cuddly pony. I couldn’t be more chuffed 🎉
Hi Warwick!
So I have a strange question, I had to start over with my guy, he had two weeks of stall rest and I found it was best to start at the beginning again.
So he’s doing something a little different. When he comes over to me, to engage, he actually puts his but to me and wants me to itch his butt. To the point where he constantly does it. And for obvious reasons, I a not thrilled with that behavior, but he’s super sensitive so I don’t want to do anything that scares him, by like waving the flag to get his butt away. What would you do? Is it kind of like the nipping thing, where you just keep engaging where he wants me too… until eventual he’s had enough?
Thank you always for your insights!
Firstly, how do you know he wants you to itch his butt? It’s possible for him to stand with his butt to you and say “you look in that direction, I’ll look in this direction, and we will both keep each other safe”.
If you do ffel its a butt scratching issue, consider how did he learn it.
If you wish to disenageg from him, just walk straight along his side and past his head, walk a distance away then stop.
You know, I never thought of that? Should I turn away from him and stare in the other direction and see what that does?
Also side question… this horse gets turned out with a more dominate horse and is always chasing him around and biting him. So just observing him in the turn out area, he’s always in guard. Do you think that has impact on a horses demeanor? I contemplated not turning him out with that aggressive horse anymore. But wasn’t sure if that actually would make a difference.
Thank you again for your time!
Yes, and yes
My wife, Jan, and I have 2 quarter horses. Cattle Ranch raised and trained for team roping. We purchased them last September (Pitzer Horse Sale), one is 6 years old and the other is 8 years old. Jan and I have done the connection exercise 3 or 4 times with each horse. The 6-yr old (Cadillac) is the outgoing one (an expressive social style) but the right amount of draw and drive. The connection exercise with him goes very well and he shakes hands with us and follows us as we walk. The 8-year-old (Paco) also has the right amount of Draw and Drive but a bit less draw, (more of an analytic/amiable social style). We are not sure how to identify Pass/Fail with him. We think it is a Pass but would like your opinion. They are herd buddies, and we do separate them for this exercise. Yes, Jan and I do these exercises solo. With Paco we follow your instructions/examples and\` go about the exercise walking as if we are window shopping and not waving the flag instantly. We walk the arc and stop and turn when we see an ear flip, an eye or head turn. Eventually he will bend his neck and crossover and approach us. He stops and shakes hands with us. He may leave and then we get his attention again and he comes back to us to nibble. Then after visiting a while we walk away. He doesn’t follow us which is fine. He is relaxed the whole time. He even fell asleep during this exercise on two different occasions. In your connection videos the horses seem to be uptight for whatever reason. Our two horses are relaxed even though we separate them. Just not sure how to determine Pass/Fail
I think thats great, awesome work!
Thank you for the clear explanations and video’s.
I’m wondering what i’m missing when trying to signal change in focus. I’m only having an arena where there is some grass, so whyle eating she follows me with ear and eye but not lifting her head. I’m not sure whats next, do i stand still while she stays eating with her ear and eye towards me?
Does she move her feet to keep you in front of her?
Hi Warwick
I have been trying this at home a few times in 2 different large paddocks without success. I can walk into the farthest corner and he will watch me the whole time. I can’t even turn around to start to walk that he doesn’t look directly at me. So watching your videos you are supposed to stop and turn around every time you get a response?
So today I trailered to a friend’s arena (200′ x 100′). I turned him out and he ran towards the horses stabled near the corner. I waited a few moments and took my flag to the farthest corner away from him. I took two steps and he looked at me. And each time I turned around to start again he looked. This continued for 1.5 hours that I could barely walk and use the flag without him watching me. I did finally get close enough a few steps at a time that he did come up to me 4 times. I’m not complaining, just confused exactly how to work with this particular horse.
My question is this horse is so watchy, am I doing this correctly?
I barely ever get his ear, it’s almost always his whole face directly looking at me.
Thank you.
Gail
” So watching your videos you are supposed to stop and turn around every time you get a response?”
It actually every time you get a change.
“I barely ever get his ear, it’s almost always his whole face directly looking at me.”
The first is the ear. If you have that, then its him looking at you. If you have that, then you spiral until the feeet untrack
Hi Warwick,
I’ve had my horse for about three months. We’ve spent that time hanging out and getting to know each other. We had our first Creating Connection through Change in Focus attempt today. The only area I have to work with him right now is a small pasture, so grass was a distraction. I did watch your video on doing this on grass and I think we did OK. When I started, he was at the other end of the pasture eating. I was able to get him to look at me a couple of times when I began walking and waving the flag at a low energy. Each time, I stopped and turned away. The closer I got to him, the more he looked and I turned away. He eventually came to me to say Hi and stood quietly for a few minutes before walking off. I started over and the second time he was a little more disinterested in the flag, but I was still able to get his attention. It took a bit longer to get him to make contact, but he did then walked off again. The third time, he really didn’t care much about the flag, he was really into the grass. I did get bigger with the flag and he would move, I would stop and turn away. This went on for some time and I felt at one point like I was chasing him with the flag. He eventually went to the corner of the pasture and stopped grazing. I was able to get his attention just by walking, no flag and he came to say hi, head down and very relaxed. We ended there. Is there something different I should have done when he was more interested in grazing than the flag? He did move off, but I felt like he was getting irritated with it and was moving away from me just to get away from the flag. If he is looking at me while he is eating, do I stop & turn around? Also, I know the goal today wasn’t to get him to follow me when I walked away, so do we keep working on this daily until he does? Thank you!
Does he live on that grass?
No, he doesn’t.
Do you turn him out on that grass for quite a while before you try to work with him?
No, I have not been. I turn him loose and let him settle, then start the exercise. He usually just moves away a bit starts eating, so I go to the opposite end of the pasture and start.
Id leave him for as long as you can before starting.
Hi Warwick, I feel this exercise is getting better with my horse – he is now coming over more often, sometimes he makes contact with his nose, sometimes he hangs for a while, sometimes he follows, often he wanders off. Sometimes he will try and rub me with his head – he used to do this at other times and I would walk along his side as it was quite hard and pushy. Now he will sometimes do this when his approaching me with the CCCF exercise, and the other thing he is sometimes doing is walking along my side. Initially he would not touch me, now he is sometimes brushing against me, and on one occasion walked around me pushing in with his shoulder. So what i’ve been doing is if he doesn’t touch me, I don’t move; if he touches me I walk along his side (either touching me by rubbing his head or brushing alongside me). Is this the right approach? Also second question – I can usually tell if he’s coming in for a gentle nose contact or a brushing alongside me contact as his walk is more of a purposeful march for the latter – I don’t increase my energy or anything to get him to stop at this stage as I am just responding to what he is doing – is this correct? Or should i be increasing my energy to try and divert this? Thanks
Remember, this exercise is for a horse that doesnt really want to approach you. It may be time to move on.